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gillberry

Joined: 27 Nov 2007 Posts: 702 Location: Norwich
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:16 pm Post subject: A Question For the Lady Drivers |
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This is starting to become a bit of a, well not argument but discussion in this house hold
When i use the Sceptre (my car) - drive to work, park it in Tescos car park, trips out etc no one seems to take any notice
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When he takes her out men wave give him the thumbs up stop and talk and he has great pleasure in coming back and telling me!!!
What is it? do they think Female driving HIS car, she will not know anything about cars?
Do you women old car drivers out there have any commnts??
And before a man gets in this point - We do not drive round with our eyes closed so we do not notice when people do it  |
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Old-Nail

Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 853
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:23 pm Post subject: |
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From my point of view I'd talk to anyone who has an old car but some fellas might think that if they were to talk to a lone woman driving a classic they might be suspected of chatting her up?
Who knows? Just remember ladies...Mirror - lipstick - manoeuvre!  |
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gillberry

Joined: 27 Nov 2007 Posts: 702 Location: Norwich
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:32 pm Post subject: |
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| We have already discussed the lone woman bit and, if a man started giving the thumbs up bit would she be offended or sexual harrasment, but if you drive something different you should expect a little bit of interest not in you but the car |
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Uncle Joe Guest
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:50 pm Post subject: |
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| I have a suspicion that this has more to do with male perceptions of women than anything else. You know the kind of thing, ''women dont know a spanner from a nail file!'' |
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gillberry

Joined: 27 Nov 2007 Posts: 702 Location: Norwich
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:58 pm Post subject: |
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I must admit that is me in some ways, I know a nail file but when he askes me for a spanner even if i pick up the one he is pointing at it will still be the wrong one  |
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Uncle Joe Guest
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:05 pm Post subject: |
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| How about it could be the fact that a lot of men are intimidated by the thoughts of a woman invading their revere? |
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Greeney in France

Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 1173 Location: Limousin area of France
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:28 pm Post subject: |
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I think the first part of the sentence is about right
Men are intimidated by the thoughts of women (full stop)
We all would love to go and talk about the car but most of us wouldnt just in case the lady took it wrong  _________________ www.OldFrenchCars.com
We do these things not to escape life but to prevent life escaping us |
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Old-Nail

Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 853
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:37 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | Men are intimidated by the thoughts of women (full stop)! |
Interesting statement, do you consider that to be all men or just the ones that you have met? |
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47p2

Joined: 24 Nov 2007 Posts: 2009 Location: Glasgow
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:40 pm Post subject: |
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Me thinks a can of worms has been opened.
Your Honour, I wish to remain silent  _________________ ROVER
One of Britain's Fine Cars |
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Greeney in France

Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 1173 Location: Limousin area of France
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:59 pm Post subject: |
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I am sure we are all being equally generalistic, not all men or not all ladies would be the same
I was trying to add a bit of tongue in cheek humour
I think I wil stop there  _________________ www.OldFrenchCars.com
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clan chieftain

Joined: 05 Apr 2008 Posts: 2041 Location: Motherwell
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 10:11 pm Post subject: |
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So you decide to speak to her about the car..What do you say without offending her ??
1.Great chassis youve got there.
2.What a cracking pair of headlights.
Any more before we get slapped.!!!!! _________________ The Clan Chieftain |
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Old-Nail

Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 853
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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47p2

Joined: 24 Nov 2007 Posts: 2009 Location: Glasgow
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 10:27 pm Post subject: |
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| 71marina wrote: | So you decide to speak to her about the car..What do you say without offending her ??
1.Great chassis youve got there.
2.What a cracking pair of headlights.
Any more before we get slapped.!!!!! |
I wouldn't even mention greasing certain parts of the vehicle  _________________ ROVER
One of Britain's Fine Cars |
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clan chieftain

Joined: 05 Apr 2008 Posts: 2041 Location: Motherwell
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 10:27 pm Post subject: |
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Is that you dressed to look at her water feature  _________________ The Clan Chieftain |
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Giggles
Joined: 25 Nov 2007 Posts: 302 Location: Tucked up under a patchwork quilt somwhere in Suffolk
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 10:28 pm Post subject: |
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Do you know it's quite funny, I don't drive but when we're out people talk to me about our cars rather than hubby! Maybe they know that I will speak to anyone where as hubby is rather shy and usually runs the other way.
Or to put it another way, I'm the gobby one of the marriage! And don't you say a word Mr Gillberry  _________________ 1953 Humber Hawk
1955 Ford Fairlane
1960 & 1963 Humber Super Snipe's |
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